Toxic

We need to work on this advice I am seeing EVERYWHERE. Please don’t pretend you haven’t seen it. If you found me, you’ve definitely seen it.

“No is a complete sentence. If your toxic friend messages you, it’s ok if self-care means ignoring them and blocking them.

But also:

Check in on all your everyone. You never know who just might need you to answer.

These two things cannot coexist. This is a huge screw you to your friends with depression.

Sorry for being toxic with my depression? Bye. Sad doesn’t mean weak. Watch this space. I’m back guys. Expect regular updates, but please be patient if they’re not THAT regular. I’m doing a LOT. In addition to all this I’m also crushing it at work. I did a really brave thing recently and we’re going to see how that turns out, but the response is decent so far regardless even if it’s all that happens.

But also it’s beautiful outside but I just want to stay in bed and feel like I can’t move. It’s hard, but nice not to have to be alone with no friends because I’m toxic.

Thanks so much for reading. I hope it doesn’t interfere with your self care, but if it does, please don’t tell me to talk to you if I ever need something. Thank you ❤️